Is it okay to be fingered after your "cherry pops"?

I have been dating my boyfriend for a very long time. A few days ago he fingered me ( which he has done many other times ) but this time I started to bleed. I assume this is my "cherry popping". It has been about three days ago now and in still sore from it. But Is it okay to be fingered again? Or how long should be wait. Also, I would like to know if it will feel better now that my "cherry is popped"? And another thing i want to ask you guys is.. Do you like to finger girls? Thanks!